That's part of what I'll be covering in my workshop on April 4, and I just read a great article with five tips on the same subject.  The article is "How to Get Your Sexy Back after a Divorce or Bad Breakup" at http://advice.eharmony.com/article/how-to-get-your-sexy-back-after-a-divorce-or-bad-breakup.html?cid=23600&aid=705.  My workshop is called, "You're not the fool:  Reframing April Fool's Day by Writing (and Rewriting) Relationship Stories and Moving On."  Saturday, April 4, 2 - 4 p.m.  Artmosphere Cafe, 3311 Rhode Island Avenue, Mt. Ranier, Maryland. www.artmospherecafe.com. We've all had them  Times when a bad relationship has left us feeling like a fool.  Well, come to this workshop/reading and turn that around.  Bring a journal or some sheets of paper and write your way through the negative emotions to the other side.  Cost:  $15 book purchase.  Food available for purchase.  Hope to see you on the 4th, and hope you enjoy the article.