That's been the topic of the radio interviews I've been doing this week in advance of Valentine's Day and in promotion of my novel, Land Mines. 

Here's what I say are the 5 Keys to Rebuilding Confidence, Humor and Optimism After Divorce:

1) Love yourself

2) Believe that your best days are ahead of you

3) Engage in self-reflection (journaling is a great way to do this)

4) Read self-help books

5) Have faith.

What do you think the five keys are?  I'd love to hear back from you.  Make a post here or email me at svance@TheElevatorGroup.com.

I'll expand on all five of those topics in articles to be posted on the website in upcoming weeks.
Have a Happy Valentine's Day!
Peace--SV

I'm quoted in today's Philadelphia Daily News about President Obama as role model/sex symbol/the type of man we ladies want.  It's in Jenice Armstrong's wonderful column.  Check it out at http://www.philly.com/dailynews/features/39129282.html.  Below are the photos of what I mention in the column. I took them at the Biden Home States Pennsylvania and Delaware Inaugural Ball, where I stood right down front with an unobstructed view and a 12x zoom camera.  I'll post more photos this weekend when I do my official Inauguration blog.  I've been really busy since the inauguration.  Besides my full-time job, I've been preparing for my book launch party for my novel, Land Mines, tomorrow, Feb. 6, at my office.  Anyway, enjoy the photos.  Peace. --SV